Rambling

Today~~
Has been a good one so fare I have been home today~ My day off. J and I have had a hard couple of days. I am in woman's group and in my group we are working on boundaries and it has brought back a lot memories why did I let this happen or why didn't I see this. It is amazing what I can recall and want to forget.It amazing also the fear that comes in when you stand for your first boundary. In two years I thought I had learned but it still as had as yesterday. I am learning that a boundary is for mental safety or is controlling (CONTROLLING is BAD). Controlling ~ all sex addict wives know it is how we try to stop the behavior~~ Let me tell you it does not work........ NOT AT ALL!!!!!


My Group~ I find women of all back grounds and all shape and sizes are trying to recover from this addiction. In fact the first time walk in my women of sex addict recovery group I thought why did these men cheat. Their all perfect, beautiful,  and loving. "WHY" would they need anything else. I know that all of this has nothing to do with us, me or you,  it is their sickness and no matter what we look like if a man is sex addict they will look else were to get their fix. I have learned so much and as i go through this Journey I will share what I have learned.